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Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Apr 23, 2021

In this episode Rhonda welcomes her friend Jessica Lucchesi  Moylan, health and wellness expert, a mom of three daughters and recently divorced after 25 years of marriage. Jessica shares her insight and encouragement with you, and her message for you today is: Tack your head, your heart and your gut in the alignment.

According to Jessica, divorce is like a bad dream, but she’d rather be alone than lonely with somebody else.

Here are some of Jessica’s suggestions for those women contemplating divorce:

  1. Start to journal – What do I want? What do I want out of life, what do I want in a relationship?
  2. It is a really personal decision. You have to choose your hard - because, it is going to be hard. There will be things you have to go through whether you stay or whether you leave.
  3. Keep your side of the street clean. And be absolutely resolute and sound in your decision.

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Our guest today was Jessica Moylan, Wellness & fitness lover, make-up artist, leader and Arbonne consultant.

Here’s how she describes herself: I come from a divorced family. I wanted to do it differently. I met my husband when I was 21. He was a little older than me, and it felt safe and secure. From the outside, compared to the instability I was living in, it looked stable. It took me 20 years, to realize that my marriage is emotionally bankrupt. I did not have a partner. I did everything on my own. I felt like I was a single mom with him as a fourth child. Finally, I decided that I’d rather be alone.

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Our host of Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®

Rhonda Noordyk's relentless pursuit of financial justice for women going through divorce drove her to leave the financial industry in 2014 to open The Women's Financial Wellness Center. She was in search of a better way. She used her knowledge, passion, and experience to build a leading-edge business model. The intention was to create a business that provided a safe place for women - especially those in a vulnerable position - to find their paths, find their voices and find the financial confidence they need to lift themselves out of seemingly hopeless situations. Since starting the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, after a 10+ year career in the financial industry, she has helped alleviate financial vulnerability for thousands of women.

In addition to being the CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center, Rhonda is also a professional speaker. While her platform is women’s money wellness, it is not just about money. Her topics include: assertive communication, boundaries, leadership and overcoming financial myths. Her speaking experience includes: GE Healthcare, UWM Women’s Leadership Conference and Marquette Law School. In addition, she has appeared on Fox6 News, Real Milwaukee, and Morning Blend. Her dynamic and inspirational style leaves women with a sense of empowerment.

Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®

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